3 Signs That Your Ex Secretly Wants You Back
by Michael Fiore
OK, one of the biggest questions I get all the time is about getting your EX boy/girlfriend or EX husband/wife back.
And over the years I’ve discovered 3 almost-crazy signals that let you know if you have any chance whatsoever of getting your ex back . . .
Or if you should move on, lick your wounds and never, ever look back.
What are the signs?
The first sign is if they’re still ANGRY at you even if it’s been a while since you broke up.
See, I’ve got a saying. It goes like this: “Hate isn’t the opposite of love, apathy is.”
(OK, I’m sure plenty of other people have said that one too.)
If your ex is MAD at you, still yells at you or even says horrible things about you to people it means they’re still “emotionally invested” in some way.
That doesn’t mean you SHOULD get back together, but it does mean there’s EMOTION there.
That also doesn’t mean that because they’re acting out angrily, they’re doing it because they want to be back with you. They really may just be angry. That’s why you have to look for more signs as well. Speaking of which, let’s get to sign number two!
The 2ND SIGN is that they get UPSET if you go “No contact” on them.
Actually, a lot of people are shocked at how powerful “No contact” can actually be and how their exes tie themselves into knots as soon as you stop being at their beck and call. Go figure, right? You’d be surprised by how people react when their ego is on the line.
Beyond that, Cinderella (not the glass slipper version, rather, the 80s hair god band) got it right – “Don’t Know What You Got (‘Til It’s Gone). Sometimes, making yourself very scarce shakes a lover awake and opens their eyes to what they may be losing – YOU.
This is why the ’30 day no contact rule’ is a cornerstone of my best-selling Text Your Ex Back program. A good dose of “space” usually gives not only your partner more clarity regarding your relationship but more importantly, it gives you much needed time to wipe away the relationship fog in your brain so that you can make decisions more clearly.
And the third sign is kind of weird and maybe even a little dangerous.
The third sign is if the ex seemed to “Move on” REALLY quickly after the breakup, dating or getting a “boy/girlfriend” within a few weeks of when your relationship ended.
In a lot of cases “moving on” like that (without giving time to mourn a relationship properly) doesn’t define whether they’re “over you,” or not. What it definitely means is that there’s a giant hole in their life and their heart where you used to be and they’re looking for ANYBODY to fill it.
Of course knowing if you have a CHANCE to get them back doesn’t tell you EXACTLY how to get them back . . .
Which is why I want you to go watch this video which I think will astonish you . . .
It shows you how to use tiny little text messages to entice your ex into starting over again . . .
This is powerful stuff and you should be really careful to only use it if you ACTUALLY want your ex back.
Article source: Digital Romance