6 Surprising Secret Phrases Men Desperately Crave (He’ll Thank You For This)

6 Surprising Secret Phrases Men Desperately Crave

(He’ll Thank You For This)

6 Surprising Secret Phrases Men Desperately Crave

Have you ever seen a woman who can make any guy go absolutely crazy for her, and do the dumbest and sometimes even the most embarrassing things to please her?

And at the same time have you ever seen a woman who does everything right, yet she is never able to get the love or attention she desperately desires from her man?

Most women don’t get this; in fact, most women dress sexy, cook great meals and try to logically convince a man to like them.

But that doesn’t work because they’re missing the most important element of the puzzle.

That element is “EMOTION”.

If you ever want a man to have deep intense feelings for you, then you need to become emotionally in-tune with him.

What do I mean when I say emotionally in-tune?

I basically mean that you have to connect with the emotional part of his mind rather than the logical part.

But how does one do that?

Here are 6 emotionally stimulating phrases that will absolutely blow his mind and steal his heart in just one conversation.   And yes, he’ll thank you for this…

1. “I’m proud of you.”

Whether he is an amazing dad, works hard at his job, or he’s just an all around amazing guy, tell him how proud he makes you. Men don’t always get the credit they deserve.  Did he get that promotion at work that he’s been working towards all year, or does he take care of his elderly parents without fail every day?  Tell him how awesome he is; make this weekend all about him and show him what a great job he is doing with a night out or a surprise favorite meal and dessert!

When you show him how proud of him you really are, it not only makes him feel supported, desirable, and secure, it also makes him feel that you “get” him.  This is paramount in creating a connection between the two of you as every man deeply craves to feel understood.

Try the Whiz Bang Phrase and the Emotional Transparency Phrase (a subconscious bonding phrase) to show that you’re the woman who actually “gets” what he needs.

2. “I want you now!”

This single sexy phrase makes him drop everything (pants included) and start drooling over you.

Whispering almost any naughty line to a guy is the sexual equivalent of 3-D glasses – it heightens the entire experience for him. But after talking to a bunch of men recently, I learned there are four specific words every man longs to hear the most. The phrase that unleashes his lust? “I want you now.”  Why do these words yield so much seductive power?  Relationship expert Felicity Keith explains it in her article, “4 Reasons Why Naughty Talk Drives Men Crazy With Desire”

Men love suggestive comments; just like a woman feels more confident when her man tells her she’s beautiful, men feel more confident when their mate finds them sexy and strong. Notice your man’s muscles and flirt with him. Tell him he’s handsome. Let him know that he’s sexy. Your being suggestive makes him feel like he’s doing a good job being your man.

Try the “Secret Fantasy Phrase” to become the object of his deepest fantasies and watch how thinking about you turns him on in ways which can’t be described by words or the “Razzle Dazzle Phrase” to make every nerve in his body stir and tingle with attraction.

3. “I love you.”

Sometimes when we’re so comfortable in our relationships we don’t say “I love you”, as much as we should. These three words have so much meaning behind them, but we tend to just go about our day without saying them. So the next time you’re at work thinking of your guy, just send him a little text to show him how much you love him.

4. “You make me SO happy.”

We generally accept that men like to be successful in business. They also like to succeed with the ladies, so be smart and let your man succeed with you. Men are more driven to please women than most women realize.It was to win back Helen of Troy that King Menalaus sent the entire Greek army after her, which started the Trojan War, and eventually brought down an empire.

Letting your man know he is succeeding with you won’t spoil him or motivate him less; it will motivate him more. It feels good to feel like a winner. Let your man win with you and watch him start looking for ways to please you over and over again.

5. “You look great.”

Men have insecurities, just like women. And whether he shows it or not, sometimes he’s wondering if his shirt looks better tucked in or out, or if his belly is sticking out a little too far over his belt. This is an especially good compliment if he’s been going to the gym—why do you think he’s doing all that working out?

A simple phrase like “I love your [insert body part]” will do the trick!  Sometimes it helps to get specific.   “I love your you-know-what” (or whatever word you can say without laughing or blushing too much.) will drive him wild.  Men are sensitive about their manly bits and they want to know that you’re attracted to what they have.

6. “I love how strong you are.”

Since you’re already telling him how much you love how he looks, go a little further and say how strong he is as well. All guys, built or not, like to hear that they’re strong and can do something special for their partner.

Even more importantly, show him how mentally strong you think he is.  Men are no different than us, they like to feel wanted, needed, and that you can lean on them for emotional support, too.

So, do you now realize just how important words are in intensifying feelings of attraction and desire in your partner?  Saying the right words can literally make a man’s eyes  intensify with desire and make his body buzz.

There are certain phrases that have been researched for years and work because they sink deep into the emotion producing part of the human brain and spark up any emotion you want a person to feel.  These phrases create a feeling of euphoria in the human brain exactly like a drug and release something called the pleasure bonding chemical throughout his body.

Kelsey spent 3 years learning, researching and collecting every little detail, compiled it into a book called Obsession Phrases.  Watch this video to see how Kelsey helped hundreds of women at $300 an hour with one on one coaching and then turned it into a course for MUCH less than that!

It doesn’t matter if you’re married or single, what your body looks like, or how old you are – these obsession phrases work for everyone.  Phrases like:

The Everlasting Attraction phrase.

The Monogamy Awakener phrase for men who are commitment phobic.

The Attraction Spinner Phrase for men who only see you as a fling – use it and watch his mind open up to the idea of love for you and miss you.

The Emotional Transparency Phrase to make him feel that you’re the only woman who actually “gets” what he needs.

Plus, a man’s most secret desire that he craves in a woman.

Click here for more information on the above phrases plus many, many more.

Enjoy! xo


    1. It was very simple, when we first met you knew i was hurting and alone, you came over i open the door and I could see immediately the love you had for me in your eyes……those beautiful eyes that immediately wanted to take the pain away….you wanted to save me and that made me want to stick forever!!!

  1. Hi, I’m seeing this man and are really into him. But because of my previous hazardous relationships are insecure and afraid of rejection. So I’m holding back emotionaly, yet I want him to fall madly and deeply inlove with me.

    I’m so going to try your tips. I’ll email you the results. Wish me luck.

  2. I tell my man these things all the time. I also tell him how wonderful he is. Men do appreciate hearing these things. They like knowing how important they are. I like making sure he knows how much he means to me.

  3. I do this all the time and my man don’t swoon over me…
    And telling him I want him doesn’t seem to have any effect…
    Now what??

    1. He’s probably somewhat of a narcissist like my husband . Nothing you say or do is ever good enough him or it’s just simply not even noticed in the first place . I end up feeling so stupid afterwards …lol , Especially after the “I want you” having no effect what so ever …

  4. He’s probably somewhat of a narcissist like my husband . Nothing you say or do is ever good enough him or it’s just simply not even noticed in the first place . I end up feeling so stupid afterwards …lol , Especially after the “I want you” having no effect what so ever …

  5. Maybe you should read about the 5 love languages. A quick rundown:
    Some ppl like quality time, gifts, words of affirmation (which these sound like), physical touch, or acts of service. Like say your partner notices you’re tired & does the dishes for you and it sends you over the moon-  well, one of your love languages is probably acts of service. But what if that isn’t any of your partners love languages? Then he’s probably not going to swoon if you did it for him… and I can totally understand how not getting the reaction you were hoping for is discouraging. But maybe what he really likes more is spending quality time with you or getting a little gift. Receiving gifts may sound materialistic- but I’m sure we can all spot a spoiled ogre a mile away. I mean like if they swoon with anything you give them. If you can’t relate, it probably just means that receiving gifts isn’t one of your love languages- but that’s no reason to cut down someone who operates differently. It’s the same with.. cuddling for example- I heard of a lady out there who didn’t really care for physical touch.    ??!!!??!    Since one of my love languages is physical touch, I can’t believe it wasn’t for a big deal for her. I just don’t know how its possible. Lol
    There’s an online test about it, I really recommend taking it or reading the book! I don’t think it the one-and-only guide to relationships but it is certainly helpful.