Both men and women will agree that one of the biggest turn offs in a love relationship is when the other person plays mind games. There is nothing more frustrating when one is being honest and open yet finds themselves caught in a web of confusion by another’s actions. When one is left scratching their head, not understanding where they stand, they will inevitably ask themselves if the other person is there just to play or if they are there to actually play ball.
Let’s just tell it like it is here, shall we? When someone doesn’t know what they want in a relationship, in a partner, or even in themselves, yet decide to pursue a love relationship, they will inevitably play games with the feelings of their love partner. It is each person’s individual responsibility to treat our partner with love and respect if we expect our relationship to flourish and have a firm foundation. If we don’t know what it is that we want or simply don’t take the other person seriously enough to be respectful of their feelings, we are far too emotionally immature to be in a relationship at all. So why bother?
Relationships are much more exciting when we delve into the core of who our partners are. Great relationships are built on mutual love, trust, respect, and genuine caring for our partner’s life and feelings. These kinds of relationships are not built on mind games. If we are not prepared to respect our partner enough to offer them our very best, we should put our selfish feelings and actions aside in order to take care of our own issues before creating issues for someone who cares enough about us to put up with our poor behavior. ~Gia