What makes people appealing.

What traits do you find appealing in people? Leave us your thoughts.

People are sexy

I think people are […] when they have a sense of humor, when they are smart, when they have some sense of style, when they are kind, when they express their own opinions, when they are creative, when they have character. ~Suzanne Vega



  1. I find a man […] if he can laugh at himself and can carrry that sense of humor into all aspects of his life. Intelligence is high on the list as well as compassion for others, concern for the environment and a passion for our four legged friends. Of course he must see me as an equal.

  2. What makes man […]? Intelligence has to be #1. If he can’t keep up with me mentally, nothing else matters. A sense of humor is also key. Along with that sense of humor is not taking things personally. Confidence. Being comfortable with himself and who he is. A man that is comfortable enough with himself to be able to equally wear a suit or jeans, be masculine or sensitive, be protective or let a woman take the lead, depending on the situation and what’s best for both of them. A true partner, not someone who wants to act like a parent or a child.

  3. Sence of humor, style, character, intellengence, family orientated, friendly, confidence is a plus but not essential, hetero a must, good priorities, hero a plus, believes in GOD ( Christian for example), proud too be an AMERICAN, OF COURSE.

  4. People are appealing when they don’t look at the world as something to be conquered or avoided, don’t think personal relationships as something to be dominated or ditched, or that they hold the moral high ground on every issue of opinion.